I was listening to a person explaining about life protection product and she was telling the audience that her wedding gift on the most special day of her life is insurance. And she was joking why her husband bought the insurance under her name not naming her as the beneficiary. We all laughed and the guys were complimenting her husband who was sitting behind us as SMART.

My mind started to trail relationship issue. As I'm sitting in front of my laptop, I started to wonder why people sometimes could just stop talking to another person be it friend or family members in a blink of an eye. If you knew the reason that provoked this awkward situation is one thing but if you don't know at all is a SERIOUS thing because depriving the victim the very simple reason of WHY causes permanent injury to the heart until he or she forgets you. I guess that's why some people have time capsule to stop time even after death.

If you really follows my blog closely, I mentioned about a friend who failed to return my money... I wanted to jeopardise his life and another friend stopped me. by explaining to me it was not worth it. He added is it worth to jeopardise a relationship, friendship in this case, over such matter? I thought of the same thing to all kinds of relationship especially within the family web. Is it necessary to jeopardise the family relationship just because a member is not acting according to what you like? And you tell him/her "I DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU ANYMORE" And in movies, we could see how parents disown their kids and I have even read it in biographies how a mother disown her daughter just because her beautiful daughter's social status has ranked higher than her.

I find it childish in a way. Everyone has his or her own personality; if you don't like just reduce your interaction with that person even though he or she is related to you. Because within the family context, you and the person you dislike is related no matter what. It can't be erased until the day you cradle in the grave. But if you are the person who decided to stop all interaction with the person don't you feel anything towards that person? Do you feel it's a waste to see it ended? Do you feel sad.. remorse... anything? Or elated? A movie I might watch is Definitely, Maybe. The storyline is running in line with this pertubing issue of mine.

I was thinking more to what happen when you really need help from the person you have stop talking to? What if that is the only person in the whole world that could help you? Would you brush your pride away and start talking to the person as though nothing happen? Won't it be too late to heal when the injury is already scarred? I just feel it brings a lot of inconvieniences to yourself and also to the other party. Have you thought of the consequences before doing so?

Maybe I should just get a time capsule to be buried beside my grave. Good idea. I need to remember to write that in my will. Wait .. I need to get thinking what I should include ... and the number 1 in my list is Orochimaru and number 2 is Eiji Wentz. I mean pictures certainly!

it's quite hard to read on the right side because the words dont really stand out against your pic. Anyway, I would say no matter how much I complain that I hate my dad's side of the family, I would never be able to tell it to their faces because I know that my father would be so so so god damn angry with me, he prolly wont talk to me for the rest of his life and his mother would be really really sad that if she were to die after I said that, I'd be the one who is to be her cause of death. I'd be always glad though that I would never need to listen to all the crap that they say. Even friends, no matter how much I don't like them I could never tell them for who knows they might be the one who would help you in the future.
» Nuttz on 2008-04-16 10:20:28

what can you do? he or she is your friend and you lend money to them because you trust them, well now he or she betray the trust just don't let it get you down. Let it go, it will be fine because he will return the money back. Just think the money you threw away to CHARITY ... he who use it for not good purpose is "jit toh" ^^
» elitevillain on 2008-04-17 02:12:43

Ooh
I like the new layout...it works well on my computer because my laptop is widescreen, so your pic doesn't overlap with the text.

I know what you mean about leaving friends...I see it tends to happen with girls more often, in high school at least. I always hear the drama from my girlfriend and it sound so STUPID to me, about the stupidest things and uncontrollable, unjustified emotions that get way out of hand. And then, like you said, people stop talking to each other and it DOES seem like a waste. I don't get it :(
» The-Muffin-Man on 2008-04-17 02:51:13

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